We shouldn’t blindly jump into a relationship hoping that it may work out. We should really think into how compatible we are together and whether there’s a potential future between the two of us. There aren’t just your feelings at stake — but their feelings are on the line, too. It would be selfish to jump into a risky relationship just because you’re willing, it doesn’t mean they’re willing to take the same risk on their emotions.
We must aim to push out all negativity from our life and surround ourselves with all that is positive — from people, to beliefs, to habits. We need to be the positive change we all so desire within our lives, it doesn’t always happen on its own. Unless you win the lottery or something.
We should reach for things we don’t think we can attain because we are all capable of things we never imagined possible. This way we will challenge ourselves to become better and make our shortcomings disappear.
“it is our failure to become our perceived ideal that ultimately defines us and makes us unique.
it’s not easy, but if you accept your misfortune and handle it right,
your perceived failure can become a catalyst for profound reinvention”—conan o`brien. (via jchu)